Calming signals or emotion as a group mind?
The most significant thing in this video is that the brown dog at all times acts as a mirror, as the equal and opposite to the Malamute and, it also has a drive to approach the Malamute, despite the situation looking like the Malamute intends some kind of aggressive incident. The Malamute is attracted to the brown dog, yet it “feels” blocked, thus it’s perceiving through its balance circuitry. Another way of saying this is that while the brown dog is magnetically orienting (rear end going “faster” than front end), in contrast the Malamute is electrically charged (front end going “faster” than hind end). This difference speaks to an internal flow dynamic within their respective body/minds; the current is flowing in the brown dog and this begets a magnetic field, whereas the Malamute is experiencing a sense of pressure in its head. Another way of saying this is that the brown dog feels its p-cog in its hind end, and feels pulled forward, whereas the Malamute feels pushed ahead with its p-cog in its head. The Malamute is afraid of falling over forward, it’s going forward while trying to hold itself back. Resisting movement and being upset by the movements of others is the hallmark of the balance perspective. The brown dog is a mirror because by virtue of feeling grounded within its own body, it is thereby implementing Newton’s 3rd law of motion, every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Every aspect of the Malamute’s demeanor and deportment is instantly mirrored in the demeanor and deportment of the brown dog because when she feels a pull to her right, she feels a shift to her left and compensates by shifting to her right, as if Malamute is looking at its “self” in a mirror. The same is happening on all planes of movement, up/down, back/forward. This calms the Malamute because the equal/opposite of acting like a predator (electric) is acting like a prey (magnetic) and this makes the Malamute feel safer because there is some degree of visual grounding getting through its charge.
How does the small brown dog know what to do and why is the Malamute calmed by this demeanor, and then why does the Malamute react explosively? The answer to this is that the first order of information organizing interactions is a transfer of momentum. So we see that the brown dog is being pulled into the Malamute (because of the constraints of the situation, being attached to a handler on lead and on a sidewalk going forward, if it were free it would act in a far more circuitous manner) almost as much as the Malamute is approaching her. Nevertheless, it is highly attracted. Meanwhile the Malamute is reflecting her emotional energy back to her, with its upright and stiffened posture and hard-eyed fixation. But at all times she remains engaged via her hunger circuitry or enteric nervous system, and she is absorbing the predatory energy the Malemute is projecting onto her because she can still feel her body even with this charge. She is accepting the transfer of momentum, feeling it as a warm sensual pressure that travels in and within along the subliminal beam of attention directed to her deep gut. Thus she licks her lips, the physical memory of ingestion. She is being “sensualized.” At a distance, she’s already imported his essence by sight and then she’s driven to lick his lips (tasting saliva, a preyful aspect) to thereby complete the emotional circuit with a tangible ground. She feels as if she is the object of attraction and feeling her body, she can feel leverage because she perceives pressure as warmth and the physical memories of early litter experiences. Note that as she pushes her head under his muzzle his head is pushed back, indicating that she has the emotional leverage in the interaction. She is ACTING on the Malamute by being indirect. The Malamute is paralyzed in Direct/Reactive. Her movements, tail and ear set, curve of body, softness of her weight on her pads, is a mirror image of the tense malamute. She is getting Under-the-Charge and then from this vantage point she begins to transfer the momentum back onto the Malamute. (Who is in control of who, who is getting more flow out of life?) The problem with a dog in balance mode such as the Malamute is that output-has-to-equal-input (which is why dogs do better in off/lead wide open venues because they have the time and space to outlet energy in circuitous ways and by maintaining discrete distances their output can satisfy the input until they get under the charge). Because she is acting conductive at the preyful polarity, she is absorbing the forward momentum of the Malamute and helping it out with the input/output problem.
At about the one minute mark as they make contact you can see that the Malamute is sniffing ever so slightly, and then there is a subtle licking of its lips, its eyes have softened as it’s not staring as fixedly at the other dogs’ eyes. It’s beginning to feel its body and becoming open to receiving the transfer of momentum back from the brown dog. It is leaning forward because there is a trickle of current getting through, a magnetic pull beginning, but its shoulders are locked up with tension, hence it teeters forward. It’s own body/mind containing its own a dynamic of implementing 3rd law of motion, a pull forward while simultaneously a pull backward.
Finally as the brown dog becomes more animated with getting on with the transfer, the Malamute’s handler becomes nervous, probably from prior incidents, and begins to pull the Malamute back. (The brown dog’s handler is violating protocol by letting the transfer proceed without the necessary softening happening in the Malamute). In previous incidents sniffing sessions would have begun well enough but as the momentum begins to transfer, the balance-dog goes “over budget” and then its emergency ballast/energy reserve gets dislodged (what the dog is trying to hold back) causing it to react explosively. Even so such a dog is merely trying to keep the transfer out of its body/mind because it can’t handle any more energy, it’s already at its upper limit of carrying capacity, the choke hold being its neck/jaw-pivot region. So the handler begins to pull back and the Malamute perceives this as too much of a transfer and it “brays.” In other words, it explosively yawns as it finally collapses from the pressure of the sensations of the p-cog lodged in its head. Note that the brown dog is not in the least flustered by the snark and doesn’t return fire because from its point of view, this is just the opening volley in the game of ping pong with which it is well experienced as we see in next video. She perceives it as the yawn that it is, there is no intention in it, it is part of the flow cycle. After the bray the Malamute feels better and is now well positioned to make contact with the brown dog and get into its body were they to resume their interaction. (A bark would have come in handy here as it speeds up the protocols of transfer.) Because the Malamute has released its grip on its p-cog and feels better, its jaw/neck region temporarily relaxed, the brown dog looks wistfully at the one that got away. So much energy has been left on the table, not converted to flow.
(I should add that an optimal approach would have been right before the snark, to let the Malamute withdraw to a post to lift his leg and this would have shifted his perspective from being the object-of-attention, as the focus would have been shifted onto the scent post. Anointing a post with scent objectifies a mid-point, a common object-of-attraction, and then while the brown dog is smelling the post, the Malamute would be able to smell her body while feeling even safer since the brown dog is focused on the scent. )
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